A faith-centered, trauma-informed initiative serving every community touched by violent loss: survivors, families of offenders, at-risk youth, justice-involved youth, and parents who need their own space to heal.
Bearing one another's burdens and walking in forgiveness across every side of the wound.
The Both Sides of the Coin Initiative (BSOTCI) is a Columbia, South Carolina-based nonprofit delivering trauma-informed healing programs that bring together the communities on every side of violent loss: survivors, families of offenders, and youth caught in between.
We are not clinical therapy. We are a bridge, creating the space where healing begins and guiding participants toward the professional counseling and restored community they deserve.
"Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
Galatians 6:2 (NIV)When violence happens, the impact spreads outward like ripples in water. It does not stop at the moment of the act. One bullet creates wounds that reach families, friends, neighbors, and communities, and those ripples keep moving long after the moment has passed.
BSOTCI was built on this understanding. We reach every ripple, not just the one closest to the center.
Our programs are designed for the communities most often left out of the healing conversation, brought together in structured, trauma-informed environments.
Individuals navigating the aftermath of losing a loved one to violence, supported in trauma-informed group healing environments that affirm their grief and open pathways forward.
Family members of those who caused harm, often invisible in systems of support, offered a space to process guilt, stigma, and grief while finding their own path to healing.
Young people at the intersection of trauma, exposure to violence, and instability, reached before the cycle repeats through structured, age-appropriate programming.
Young people navigating the juvenile justice system, met with dignity and structure, including a supplemental Reentry Module for those returning from detention.
Developed in direct response to feedback from law enforcement and community partners, BSOTCI's Parent Support Group provides a dedicated healing space for parents of at-risk and justice-involved youth. Parents carry their own trauma, fear, and grief, and they need their own support to be fully present for their children. Includes the supplemental 3-session Reentry Module: "Same Place, New Possibilities."
Your generosity makes it possible for BSOTCI to reach the communities that need healing the most.
Both Sides of the Coin Initiative is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit. Your donation is tax-deductible to the extent allowed by law.
Born from divine calling, shaped by personal loss, and committed to healing every person touched by violence.
The Both Sides of the Coin Initiative did not begin with a strategic plan. It began with a divine calling to reach out to the mother of her son's killer. In one of the most profound acts of faith and forgiveness, our Founder Tyra K. Little answered that call. From that encounter, the entire BSOTCI philosophy was born: that every act of violence creates more than one victim, and that healing must reach every side.
Days after Oji's murder, God showed Tyra a vision of that mother, curled up in a ball, in a dark room, crying. She knew she had to call her. She left a voicemail:
"I am not mad at you. I love you. Call me."
Tyra K. Little, voicemail to the mother of Oji's killerWhen the call came back, God gave Tyra words that were almost too much to process in that moment. She knew exactly what God was asking her to say. The weight of it was immense. But she was obedient:
"If either of us could have bid this cup to pass, we would have. But it is much better to go through this with a sister in Christ than with someone who does not know Him."
The words God gave Tyra K. Little on that callAt that moment, Tyra wailed. And on the other end of the line, that mother cried too. Two women. Two sides of the same wound. And from that divine encounter, Both Sides of the Coin Initiative was born.
BSOTCI was formally incorporated in September 2025 as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, rooted in Columbia, South Carolina.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."
Proverbs 3:5-6 (NKJV)
To deliver trauma-informed healing to every community touched by violence, serving survivors, families of offenders, at-risk youth, justice-involved youth, and parents as a structured bridge to counseling, restoration, and renewed community.
A South Carolina where no community navigates the aftermath of violent loss alone. Beginning in Richland County and expanding statewide, BSOTCI envisions every community touched by violence having access to structured, faith-centered healing and the support it needs to rebuild.
Grounded in the belief that God can redeem even the deepest pain and turn it into purpose.
Holding both sides of the coin and making space for every person to move toward restoration.
Honoring the full humanity of every participant, regardless of which side of loss they stand on.
Building the collective strength that makes it possible for individuals to heal and families to rebuild.
Survivors of violent loss, at-risk youth, justice-involved youth, and parents navigating impossible circumstances. Their pain is often visible, but the long-term support they need is rarely there.
Families of those who caused harm, living with stigma, guilt, and their own unprocessed grief. Invisible to systems and communities that do not know how to support them.
We do not choose sides. We hold the whole coin.
BSOTCI is not clinical therapy. We are a structured, trauma-informed bridge, creating the conditions for healing to begin and guiding participants toward the counseling services and community restoration they need for the long journey ahead.
We partner with law enforcement, community organizations, faith institutions, and service providers to ensure that no one walks across our bridge and finds themselves alone on the other side.
Your partnership, whether financial, professional, or through community, makes our programs possible.
Structured, trauma-informed healing programs serving five demographics in structured weekly cohorts.
Every BSOTCI program cohort is designed with a specific community in mind, delivered with cultural competency, trauma sensitivity, and a deep understanding of the unique grief each group carries.
Adults who have experienced the murder or violent death of a loved one. Our cohort provides structured peer support, psychoeducation on trauma, and guided pathways to professional counseling services.

Family members of individuals who have committed violent offenses. This program acknowledges the secondary trauma, stigma, and disenfranchised grief these families carry and creates the space for their healing to begin.

Young people exposed to violence, community trauma, and instability. Our age-appropriate curriculum meets them where they are and builds the skills, relationships, and resilience to break the cycle.

Young people within or transitioning out of the juvenile justice system, met with dignity and structure. Includes a supplemental Reentry Module for youth returning from detention.

Developed in direct response to community feedback, the Parent Support Group provides a dedicated healing space for parents of at-risk and justice-involved youth. Parents carry their own trauma and grief and they need their own support to be fully present for their children.
Includes supplemental 3-session Reentry Module: "Same Place, New Possibilities"
Each program demographic participates in a structured 8-week cohort: small enough for genuine connection, structured enough for consistent progress.
Every session is designed through a trauma-informed lens, honoring the biology and psychology of grief while leaving space for faith, hope, and restoration. BSOTCI offers both faith-integrated and secular program tracks.
A supplemental 3-session module developed for parents of youth returning from juvenile detention, addressing the transition, family dynamics, and the support systems needed for a successful return home.
BSOTCI participants are connected to professional counseling services, community resources, and partner organizations. We begin the healing and walk alongside participants as they access longer-term support.
BSOTCI's programs were shaped in direct partnership with law enforcement leadership, community agencies, and local institutions. Partner logos coming soon.
Our roadmap for building a sustainable, community-rooted organization that carries healing to every side of violent loss.
BSOTCI's strategic direction is rooted in the same calling that founded the organization: to reach every side of violent loss with structured, faith-centered healing.
A South Carolina where no community navigates the aftermath of violent loss alone. Beginning in Richland County and expanding statewide, BSOTCI envisions every community touched by violence having access to structured, faith-centered healing and the support systems needed to rebuild.
To deliver trauma-informed healing to every community touched by violence: survivors, families of offenders, at-risk youth, justice-involved youth, and parents, serving as a structured bridge to counseling, restoration, and renewed community.
Grounded in the belief that God can redeem even the deepest pain and turn it into purpose and impact.
Holding both sides of the coin and making space for every person to move toward restoration.
Honoring the full humanity of every participant and partner, treating each person as deserving of care and respect.
Building the collective strength that makes it possible for individuals to heal and communities to rebuild.
Expand structured healing cohorts to serve all five demographics across Richland County, with a clear pathway to extend BSOTCI's reach statewide throughout South Carolina.
Build a diversified, sustainable funding base including government partnerships, foundation grants, corporate sponsors, and individual donors.
Deepen formal partnerships with law enforcement, faith institutions, social service agencies, and reentry organizations across the Midlands.
Build the internal infrastructure, data systems, governance, and team needed to deliver programs with consistency, integrity, and excellence.
Ensure that every BSOTCI demographic has access to a consistently delivered, trauma-informed eight-week cohort with clear goals, trained facilitators, and outcome measurement.
Establish formal MOUs and referral relationships with law enforcement, juvenile justice agencies, faith communities, and social service organizations so that no person who needs BSOTCI goes unserved for lack of a pathway in.
Pursue a diversified funding strategy including state Community Investment Project funding, federal grants, foundation support, corporate partnerships, and a cultivated individual donor base.
Use BSOTCI's platform, the Founder's legislative leadership, and the Everytown Survivor Fellowship to advocate for policies, funding, and systems changes that support healing, prevention, and community safety across South Carolina.
Request a copy of our complete strategic plan document.
Councilwoman. Veteran. Executive Director. Mother. Living proof that purpose can be born from the deepest pain.
Tyra K. Little has experienced the kind of loss that reshapes everything. Her son Ajani was murdered by police in 2013, eleven days after turning 21. In 2024, at the beginning of her campaign for county council, more than 32 bullets were fired into her home while she was inside. Less than 30 hours later, her oldest son Oji was murdered in North Carolina, set up and killed by people who traveled across state lines to do it. She has sat in the deepest darkness of violent loss, not once, but twice, and she survived it.
What emerged from that darkness was not bitterness. It was a divine calling to reach out to the mother of Oji's killer. Days after his murder, God showed Tyra a vision of that mother, curled up in a ball, in a dark room, crying. She left her a voicemail:
"I am not mad at you. I love you. Call me."
Tyra K. Little, voicemail to the mother of Oji's killerWhen the call came back, God gave Tyra words that stopped her in her tracks. It was not that she did not want to say them. She could not believe God was asking her to carry that in that moment. The weight of it was a lot to process. But she knew she had to be obedient:
"If either of us could have bid this cup to pass, we would have. But it is much better to go through this with a sister in Christ than with someone who does not know Him."
The words God gave Tyra K. Little on that callIn that moment of radical obedience, the entire philosophy of Both Sides of the Coin Initiative was born. Not from a program. Not from a curriculum. From a phone call only God could have orchestrated.
Tyra is a U.S. military veteran with nearly 21 years of combined Navy and Air Force service. She serves as Richland County Councilwoman for District 3, representing over 39,000 constituents. She is an Everytown Survivor Fellow and holds a B.S. in Legal Studies and a Professional Certificate in Trauma-Informed Practices.
She introduces herself simply as Tyra, because what matters most is not the titles but the testimony.
Tyra serves nearly 21 years in the U.S. Navy and U.S. Air Force, developing the leadership, discipline, and community commitment that would define her later work.
Tyra's son Ajani is murdered by police, eleven days after turning 21. This loss reshapes her understanding of systemic failure and the invisible grief that communities carry.
At the beginning of her campaign for county council, more than 32 bullets are fired into Tyra's home while she is inside. Less than 30 hours later, her oldest son Oji is murdered in North Carolina, set up and killed by people who traveled across state lines to do it. Some of the same individuals were involved in both. Tyra continued her campaign. She won.
In the aftermath of Oji's murder, Tyra receives a divine calling to reach out to his killer's mother. In answering that call, the entire BSOTCI philosophy is fully realized.
Tyra is elected Councilwoman for District 3, representing over 39,000 constituents. She champions community safety, veterans' legislation, and county-first policy, including leading the charge on South Carolina's first county-level hate intimidation ordinance.
Both Sides of the Coin Initiative is formally incorporated as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, bringing Tyra's calling into structured, sustainable community impact.
There are many ways to stand with BSOTCI, from financial support to volunteer time to community partnership.
Your financial contribution directly funds program delivery, participant support, and the infrastructure that keeps BSOTCI running. Every dollar creates access to healing for someone who could not otherwise reach it.
Give NowShare your time, skills, and presence. Whether you are a licensed counselor, a community advocate, or someone who has walked through loss yourself, there is a place for you at BSOTCI.
Get ConnectedOrganizations, faith institutions, law enforcement agencies, and community groups are invited to explore how BSOTCI can serve your community alongside the work you are already doing.
Start a ConversationAs an Everytown Survivor Fellow, Founder Tyra K. Little is part of the national movement to end gun violence in America. BSOTCI actively participates in prevention education and survivor advocacy.
To take action on gun violence prevention, text HONOR to 644-33.
Every act of support helps BSOTCI reach one more family, one more young person, one more community member who deserves to heal.
Whether you are a partner, a program participant, a donor, or someone who needs more information, we would love to hear from you.
The Both Sides of the Coin Initiative is rooted in Columbia, South Carolina, and committed to the communities of Richland County and beyond.
If you are a law enforcement officer, social worker, community organization, or faith leader seeking to refer individuals to BSOTCI programs, please use our online referral form.
Open the Referral FormFor law enforcement, social workers, community organizations, and faith leaders. Submit a family for our trauma-informed healing programs. A Both Sides of the Coin Initiative staff member will follow up within 3 to 5 business days.
How Both Sides of the Coin Initiative collects, uses, and protects the information you share with us.
Effective date: August 2026.
Both Sides of the Coin Initiative ("BSOTCI," "we," "us") respects your privacy and is committed to protecting the personal information you share with us. This policy explains what we collect and how we use it.
We only collect information you choose to submit to us, including:
Our programs involve minors. We handle youth information with care and only with the awareness and willingness of a parent or guardian, consistent with our referral and consent process.
Form submissions are transmitted and stored through our website host and email provider. No method of transmission or storage is completely secure, but we take reasonable measures to protect your information.
To ask what information we hold about you, to correct it, or to request its deletion, email us at info@bothsidesofthecoin.org.
We may update this policy from time to time. The effective date above reflects the most recent version.
Questions about your privacy? Email info@bothsidesofthecoin.org.